ok. im really really new to this. i want to learn how to write games and software and be able to use a computer really good. but right now i dont know anything about writing a program. i just got xna express and am trying to figure it out. can anyone help me find where i can learn to use this and eventually design my own games

how do i learn how to do this
Coder25
Once you're comfortable with that programming language (in GSE's case, its C#), then you can move on to making games. I don't like telling people to move right into making games first, because then they miss out on the basics of OOP, structures, and learning the .NET Framework classes.
The official learn C# videos are at:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/vstudio/express/visualcsharp/easytolearn/
The official learn XNA videos are at:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/directx/xna/videos/
Bruxir